Pornography wasn’t the issue.. wait, what?!

Pornography wasn’t the issue.. wait, what?!

We have some potential big changes going on over here. Things I will write about in the future because I'm still processing them and trying to calm the heck down over here. But I will share one thing with you that I'm currently exploring. G and I were talking in our room the other day. [...]

Maybe don’t say this to divorced people..

Maybe don’t say this to divorced people..

We had some friends over for supper the other night. We are in the beginning stages of getting to know one another. They are members of the local church, and all around good people. We were sharing about our past history. Awkward questions ensued. "So why doesn't G's family want anything to do with you [...]

When golf clubs become the weapon of choice against your sister and the world.

When golf clubs become the weapon of choice against your sister and the world.

I'm not a sports person, never have been, but I figured maybe I could handle golf. During this COVID-19 outbreak, golfing is one of the few things left do with with kids. We hit up the local Facebook marketplace, bought some second hand clubs, and headed out. I took Six and Seven along because both [...]

I’m only responsible for me. Which helps when you have no idea what’s going on.

I’m only responsible for me. Which helps when you have no idea what’s going on.

I've been listening to a lot of podcasts and sermons recently. I have a few pastors and teachers that really challenge me to be the best person I can be. I've been trying to take this seriously in how I relate to the people around me. I know I have blind spots in how I [...]

G is combining, and I need Jesus.

G is combining, and I need Jesus.

It's May 1st here in Canada, and the combines are out in full force. If you didn't grow up in a farming community you're probably thinking "ok cool, whatever." If you did grow up in a farming community, you will think one of two things: 1. She's obviously on drugs. 2. What the heck happened [...]

In which a dysfuntional family funeral has a silver lining.

In which a dysfuntional family funeral has a silver lining.

It's been a busy few months. Granny passed away, my Great Aunt became ill, our oldest son is in a serious relationship, and as you all know, the world has kind of exploded with this COVID-19 epidemic. I'm now working from home, along with helping six kids with their schoolwork. There are days when I [...]

What is family?A different way of looking at step-kids.

What is family?A different way of looking at step-kids.

I went to therapy recently. My lovely friend helped me with some of my issues regarding my step-kid's mom. She opened my eyes to a few truths I was having trouble seeing, and it helped. But that isn't what this post is about. This post is about an epiphany of mine that happened quite recently. [...]

I was brave. It didn’t work

I was brave. It didn’t work

We were at another basketball tournament this weekend. Go figure. At our particular school we have two sets of glass double doors leading into the shrine, I mean, the school gymnasium. There was a momentous moment where I saw G's ex-wife heading into the school through the double doors on the right. We were heading [...]

Someday I’m gonna be brave.

Someday I’m gonna be brave.

I think I've mentioned before that my children attend a school whose main philosophy goes a little something like this.. "All the sports! All the time! Win! Win! Win!" https://youcandothis.blog/2019/09/22/the-fire-chicken-has-entered-the-building/ We spend a lot of time sitting in the bleachers attending games. It's been a great opportunity to people watch. One family I have particularly [...]

Why is self care so much work?!

Why is self care so much work?!

I love Esma, I really do. She's like my soul sister. I have a job in the service industry as the front end staff for the local humane society. I love it at work. It's quiet and the cats don't talk back. I know what I'm supposed to accomplish, and when I'm done I can [...]